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There will be rooms more conducive to dreams than any drug,
and houses where one cannot help but love.
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Autumn Begins in Martins Ferry Ohio
 
In the Shreve High football stadium,
I think of Polacks nursing long beers in Tiltonsville,
And gray faces of Negroes in the blast furnace at Benwood,
And the ruptured night watchman of Wheeling Steel,
Dreaming of heroes.


All the proud fathers are ashamed to go home.
Their women cluck like starved pullets,
Dying for love.


Therefore,
Their sons grow suicidally beautiful
At the beginning of October,
And gallop terribly against each other's bodies.


-James Wright

“It's a sad thing not to have friends, but it is even sadder not to have enemies.”

-Che Guevara

Counting Small Boned Bodies
 
Let's count the bodies over again.

If we could only make the bodies smaller,
The size of skulls,
We could make a whole plain white with skulls in the
moonlight.

If we could only make the bodies smaller,
Maybe we could get
A whole year's kill in front of us on a desk.

If we could only make the bodies smaller,
We could fit
A body into a finger ring, for a keepsake forever.


-Robert Bly


Hobbies

Weight lifting, martial arts, bicycling, skiing, reading and writing poetry and prose, stocks, vacationing, sailing, blackjack, baccarat, modifying race cars, Leica rangefinder photography, Stand Up Comedy.

-Hypocrite lecteur,-mon semblable,-mon frere!


Race Car Before

Race Car After MORE PICS

After Racing to Vegas
Classique Convertible

MY FORMER CAR - 2006 Toyota Prius
          Goin' Green

And the latest - 2016 Volvo S60 sport edition

Some Favorite Expressions

Get me some antifreeze - I'm running hot!

(at the Baccarat tables in Vegas)

Well he may not be a for real cowboy, but he is one hell of a stud.

(While trying to explain to girls the lame cowboy hat my cousin tends to wear at times.)

Well they can't all be gems.

(trying to explain the crickets chirping after the dead silence of a less than perfect joke)

The problem with you is that you have no short term memory, no long term memory, and no mid term memory.

There are Three Kinds of People (The World According to Matty):
1. The first MAKE things happen.
2. The second WATCH things happen.
3. And the third, say "What the Hell happened?"

I'd also like to say...

I'm eternally optimistic. They could just take a shot of my blood, give it to all the Prozac patients, and they wouldn't need to take any more drugs. There is a tide in the affairs of men,
Which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune;
Omitted, all the voyage of their life
Is bound in shallows and in miseries.
-William Shakespeare, "Julius Caesar"

Humanity i love you because
when you're hard up you pawn your
intelligence to buy a drink.

ee cummings

Some are born to sweet delight,
Some are born to endless night.
-William Blake, "Auguries of Innocence"

In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer.
-Albert Camus

This is the way the world ends
This is the way the world ends
This is the way the world ends
Not with a bang but a whimper.
 
 
-T.S. Eliot
 

Some of my favorite musicians/albums...

Frankie Sinatra (The Chairman OTB), RAY CHARLES, Al Jolson, BENNY GOODMAN, Roy Orbison, Judy Garland, Chubby Checker, Satchmo (Louie A.), ELVIS PRESLEY, Bobby Fuller Four, Ella Fitzgerald, Billie Holiday, Bob Dylan, Procol Harum, THE BEATLES ("Abbey Road"), JIMI HENDRIX, Grateful Dead, THE DOORS, LES ROLLING STONES ("Exile on Main Street"), Eric Clapton, Cream, War, The Moody Blues, The Mamas and the Papas, Player, Bob Marley ATW, DAVID BOWIE ("Ziggy Stardust & the Spiders from Mars"), Iggy Pop, Lou Reed, some Beach Boys, Three Dog Night, Earth Wind & Fire, some Jackson 5, Barry White, Marvin Gaye, The Delfonics, Anita Ward, Jean Knight, The Staple Sisters, Aretha Franklin, Hot Chocolate, Diana Ross, KC & the Sunshine Band, Carol Douglas, George McRae, Evelyn Champagne, the Bee Gees, The Tramps, Fifth Dimension, Nancy Sinatra's Boots were Made for Walkin' all over YOU, some Yvonne Elliman, some Walter Egan, some Night Ranger, some Frank Zappa, Pink Floyd, Gordon Lightfoot, THE WHO, The Kinks, Small Faces, The Monkees, Van Morrison, Curtis Mayfield, Neil Young, Patty Smyth, Nico and the Velvet Underground, Santana, LED ZEPPELIN, Cheap Trick, tiny bit of Def Leppard, a little Deep Purple, Kate Bush, Nina Hagen, a little Chicago, Elton John, Billy Joel, Cat Stevens, Stevie Wonder, Jim Carroll Band, HUMAN LEAGUE, Sex Pistols, Black Flag, THE CLASH, Social Distortion, Buzzcocks, Violent Femmes, THE RAMONES, Dead Kennedys, X, Circle Jerks, E.L.O., KISS (A little glam rock is good for the soul), Felony, The B-52s, Soft Cell, Thomas Dolby, Wall of Voodoo, Fun Boy Three, Peter Gabriel, Adam and the Ants, Spandau Ballet, Siouxsee and the Banshees, Blondie, THE CURE, ABC, Psychedelic Furs, Frankie Goes to Hollywood, Culture Club, Duran Duran, some INXS, Roxy Music, Candy Duesler, THE POLICE, Madonna, JOY DIVISION, Bauhaus, Durutti Column, Happy Mondays, A Guy Called Gerald, 808 State, Selector, Madness, English Beat, BILLY IDOL, The Flaming Hibachis, Simply Red, The Beat, Simple Minds, The Nails, Men at Work, PRINCE, Split Endz, Go Gos, some Belinda Carlisle, some Sade, Howard Jones, Talking Heads, Peter Murphy, DFX2, some Tears for Fears, Basia, some Oingo Boingo, Flock of Seagulls (no, j/k), some Tracy Chapman, some Debbie Gibson, Depeche Mode, R.E.M., New Order, Cocteau Twins, Chris Isaak, Don Chery, No Doubt, U2, Lit, Yaz, Trio, Joe Jackson, Elvis Costello, Gypsy Kings, Heaven 17, Orchestral Maneuvers in the Dark (OMD), The Residents, Payolas, Echo & the Bunnymen, Cranberries, Lenny Kravitz, Jeff Buckley, some Tina Turner, Soul 2 Soul, The Black Crows, Ian McCulloch, Counting Crows, 10,000 Maniacs, Natalie Merchant, THE CULT, G 'n' R, The Smiths, Roxette Joyride, Gene Loves Jezebel, Bryan Ferry, The Alarm, Sainte Etienne, STONE TEMPLE PILOTS, Blind Melon, Faith No More, GARBAGE, Jane's Addiction, Skinny Puppy, The Wonder Stuff, Wallflowers, Filter, Soundgarden, Deee-Lite, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, GODSMACK, L7, Gwen Stefano, Beck, Offspring, The Replacements, some Ace of Base, Infinity, Goo Goo Dolls, Creed, Chemical Bros, Korn, Everclear, Everlast, Weezer, Bush, Salome De Bahia, Marcy Playground, Sonic Youth, Semisonic, Concrete Blonde, MC 900 Foot Jesus, Soul Asylum, The Smashing Pumpkins, NINE INCH NAILS, Dmitri from Paris, some Limp Bizkit, Portishead, Primitive Radio Gods, some Dinosaur, Jr., Sublime, Cult of Snap, MARILYN MANSON, Rebel Rebel, Type O Negative, some Sugar Ray, Beastie Boys, Cherry Poppin’ Daddies, Suicidal Tendencies, Hootie and the Blowfish, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Butthole Surfers, SOME Blink 182 (okay well actually Blink kinda sucks let's face it), some Jill Scott, 3 Doors Down, Dave Matthews band, Unwritten Law, ALICE IN CHAINS, Kid Rock, Radiohead, Verve, Vertical Horizon, some Britney Spears (face it, you like her too), Rage Against the Machine, Fiona Apple, Sarah McLachlan, Incubus, some Shakira, some Pink, New Radicals, RadioHead, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Alice Deejay, Moby, FUEL, Bah Samba, Sex With Lurch, Porno for Pyros, Alanis Morissette, Sheryl Crow, Macy Gray, Michelle Branch, Avril Lavigne, Les Savy Fav, Alkaline Trio, The Faint, Postal Service, Poppy Goodness, Murder City Devils, Evanescence, Crystal Method, One More Weekend, Cracker, some Jewel, a lil' Haddaway, Modjo, Alien Ant Farm, The Vines, Telepopmusik, some of The White Stripes, The Hives, Funky Homosapien, some All-American Rejects, a little Linkin Park, Andrew WK, some Good Charlotte, Strokes, Fatboy Slim, some Cold Play, Pennywise, Mars Volta, Pretty Girls Make Graves, Cursive, Superdrag, Kent, Interpol     Classical: Mozart, Beethoven, Bach, Brahms, Haydn, no neo-classical Danish please...lots of new music one hit wonder new bands...I had the #1 Radio Show in College so music is one of my loves...I love most ALL of it 'cept for most RAP I don't care for...well maybe SOME rap from Shaggy, 2-PAC, 50-cent, Snoop, Eminem (SLIM's pretty innovative), DMX, Dre...country: Only the oldest and best: Patsy Cline, Hank Williams, Sr., Johnny Cash...hey I even like the cool whistle sound every time Clint Eastwood appears in IL BUONO, IL CATTIVO e IL BRUTTO

Just a Few Favorite Books, Plays and Poems

Wuthering Heights, Mrs. Dalloway, Portrait of an Artist as a Young Man, Brave New World, The Great Gatsby, Animal Farm, The Catcher in the Rye, To Kill a Mockingbird, Clockwork Orange, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Koran, The Bible, Teachings of Buddha, "Julius Caesar," "Macbeth," "Hamlet," "Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf," Jack Black's You Can't Win, Hemingway's In Our Time, Jean Paul Sartre's Huis Clos, Robert Graves' I, Claudius and Claudius the God, Jack Kerouac's On The Road, William S. Burroughs' Junky and Naked Lunch, Edward Norton's My Education as a Felon, occasional trashy book like Jeanne Parrent’s You’ll Never Make Love in This Town Again, Ovid's "Metamorphoses," Homer's "The Iliad" and "The Odyssey," Chaucer’s “Canterbury Tales,” Milton’s “Paradise Lost,” William Blake's “Heaven and Hell," Keats' "Ode on a Grecian Urn," William Wordsworth's "A Slumber did my Spirit Seal" and "I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud," Coleridge’s “Kubla Khan,” Shelley’s “Ozymandius,” Pope's "Rape of the Lock," Beaudelaire's "Les Fleurs de Mal," T. S. Eliot’s “Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock,” Wallace Stevens’ “Emperor of Ice Cream,” Ezra Pound's "In a Station of the Metro," Stephen Crane’s “In the Desert,” WCW’s “The Red Wheelbarrow,” W. H. Auden’s “from In Time of War,” Robert Frost’s “The Road Less Traveled,” Allen Ginsburg's "A Supermarket in California" and "Howl,"

Favorite Movies

SCARFACE (1983), Scarface (1932), THE GODFATHER I & II, MEAN STREETS, GOODFELLAS, CASINO, UNCUT GEMS, CLOCKWORK ORANGE, MIDNIGHT COWBOY, Mully, Drugstore Cowboy, Owning Mahoney, Cool Hand Luke, Fresh, PULP FICTION, Reservoir Dogs, BLUE VELVET, Mulholland Drive, Casablanca, It's a Wonderful Life, Doctor Zhivago, The Shop Around the Corner, To Catch a Thief, HAROLD AND MAUDE, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf, Guess Who's Coming to Dinner, Rosemary's Baby, Bonnie and Clyde, Taxi Driver, Chinatown, Empire Strikes Back, The Maltese Falcon, THE SHINING, The Deer Hunter, The Big House, I am a Fugitive from a Chain Gang, Notorious, Ben-Hur, Ten Commandments, Marathon Man, Raging Bull, Frankenstein (1931), Dracula (1931), Planet of the Apes, BUTCH CASSIDY AND THE SUNDANCE KID, Cape Fear (1962),  The Bridge on the River Kwai, The Sixth Sense, THE WILD BUNCH, Dog Day Afternoon, BLADE RUNNER, Platoon, Goldfinger, Terminator, 12 Angry Men (1957), Night of the Living Dead (1968), The Picture of Dorian Gray (1945), The Day the Earth Stood Still, Poltergeist, Speed, RIVER'S EDGE, Some Like it Hot, DR. STRANGELOVE OR: HOW I LEARNED TO STOP WORRYING AND LOVE THE BOMB, Airplane!, It Happened One Night, Tootsie, Young Frankenstein, BEING THERE, There's Something about Mary, Meet the Parents, The Apartment, Raising Arizona, Ghostbusters, GROUNDHOG DAY, Modern Times, THIS IS SPINAL TAP, ANIMAL HOUSE, Big, The Great Dictator, A Shot in the Dark, The Seven Year Itch, Diner, A Day at the Races, Beverly Hills Cop, Take the Money and Run, Mrs. Doubtfire, Bananas, Caddyshack, Sleeper, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, The Jerk, Stir Crazy, The Nutty Professor (1963), The Pink Panther, The Freshman (1990), Victor/Victoria, Crimes and Misdemeanors, Broadway Danny Rose, Mighty Aphrodite, BULLETS OVER BROADWAY, Citizen Kane, On the Waterfront, Gone with the Wind, Schindler's List, Sunset Boulevard, All About Eve, ONE FLEW OVER THE CUCKOO'S NEST, E.T. The Extraterrestrial, APOCALYPSE NOW, To Kill a Mockingbird, A Streetcar Named Desire, Peyton Place, Rebel Without a Cause, Giant, THE FRENCH CONNECTION I & II, Forrest Gump, Rocky, EASY RIDER, Mutiny on the Bounty (1935), The Bounty, Pirates of the Carribbean, Lady Sings the Blues, Fargo, Unforgiven, After Hours, Back to the Future, CLUELESS, Cooley High, Desperately Seeking Susan, FERRIS BUELLER'S DAY OFF, Fun with Dick and Jane, Heaven Can Wait, How to Marry a Millionaire, How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying, L.A. Story, Kiss me Kate, Ocean's Eleven (1960), Pillow Talk, STALAG 17, La Cage aux Folles, The Devil and Miss Jones (1941), Repo Man, My Life as a Dog, The Man with Two Brains, The Pink Panther Strikes Again, THE ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW, TRADING PLACES, Up in Smoke, Wag the Dog, What's New, Pussycat?, Zelig, BASQUIAT, An Affair to Remember, Man on the Moon, Waking Ned Devine, Hunchback of Notre Dame (1939), Count of Monte Cristo, Love Story, Never Been Kissed, Postman Always Rings Twice (1946), The Purple Rose of Cairo, They Won't Forget, The Bad and the Beautiful, All Quiet on the Western Front (1930), All the President's Men, Airport 1975, Alien, THE BIG SLEEP, The Blair Witch Project, The Boys from Brazil, Heat, M, 48 Hours, From Russia With Love, You Only Live Twice, Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom, Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, Star Wars, Invasion of the Body Snatchers, DAWN OF THE DEAD (1978), Independence Day, Training Day, The Invisible Man (1933), King Kong (1933), L.A. Confidential, Lawrence of Arabia, THE LAST OF THE MOHICANS, MIDNIGHT EXPRESS, Animal Factory, LIFE WITH FATHER, Sea of Love, Shaft, SUPERFLY, Soylent Green, Star Trek II:  The Wrath of Khan, Straw Dogs, Superman II, The Texas Chainsaw Massacre (1974), True Grit, The Sons of Katie Elder, 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea, THE UNTOUCHABLES, THE USUAL SUSPECTS, War of the Worlds, Witness, The Wizard of Oz

My Favorite Places

Poetry Online

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Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love,
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove.
Oh, no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests.. and is never shaken.
It is the star to every wandering bark
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love is not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come.
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out.. even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.


Sonnet CXVI
William Shakespeare

 

You never know just how you look through other people's eyes

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